- Posted August 24, 2013 by
Deer Park, Washington
This iReport is part of an assignment:
The written word: Your personal essays
Every single day we have:
Death of a Child
Once a month we have:
Babies born that will end up lost in the system
Mothers and fathers who will do anything for the first 5 years then the child is on their own
Decisions that should not have been made
A drunk night and a bad situation?
A high night and a school hero falls from a balcony
Two cars smashing and killing entire families
Who is diving into those minds? All of them? Bad decisions and we continue to look the other way.
Some blame guns, drugs, but they are afraid to say Mental Health. A parent is afraid of getting help for their child because cps might take them. Then they grow up with serious issues and we continue to enable them.
I'm sure everyone knows of a teen boy who takes control of the family? Hits his mother. Where is the father? Uncle? Grandfather? Yes the responsibility lies on all of you if your kin is being in appropriate. I had 2 uncles who decided eating drugs was better than helping me.
Oh I'm not afraid of saying there is serious issues in my family. If I could they would all be doing counseling. But they are to tough for that. Well if your to tough to get help you don't get to be around your granddaughter, cousin, niece. Yes I do counseling and know I need it. Yes I have PTSD and if it is not controlled then it is not good. Am I dangerous? No I use common sense and know I need to do something for my daughter. That is to open a big ole conversation with the world. I will write about all my experiences and how I fixed them until the world opens up.
Anyone who sees this will know there is someone in their family? Or even themself that has Mental Health issues and needs to do something about it?
We are in an age where parents, mothers, fathers, sons, daughters, uncles, aunts, grandparents need to be accountable for their kin. We are in an age that needs to change because heros are dying because lack of parenting and getting help for those who are having mental health problems. Do you need to spank that child who is going to shoot up a school in 10 years? Absolutely. One spanking can change the world. One NO and kin standing together can change the world.
We live in a country that is free to do what you want. But there are laws. And there will be more laws. When it comes to you coming home and seeing your son, brother, nephew, grandson hanging from a ceiling? Yeah not good Or you come home and see their brains on the other side of the bed? Yeah not good. But we do nothing? We are not that free to leave our kin alone.
I will explore and blog this until it opens up and changes are made. Teens you do not own this world. Girls or Boys I have had both. You do not do what you want and you respect your elders and if you can't? Then 911 or a mental health facility is a good place for you until the problem can be sorted out.
Parents don't be afraid if you got a punk child? Call 911 or call a mental health facility save their lives or someone elses. IronhorseDaddy will Explore this more and more until my daughter can walk down a street safely. We may not need people in prisons? But we do need many people in New Mental Health facilities so you can be an awesome productive citizen.
I care alot I have been through so much people say I should write a book. If I wrote the book I am afraid people would end up with PTSD. I am passionate and I am strong and I have a big voice. Lets change the world.