- Posted October 18, 2013 by
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What would you do MALALA if equality doesn’t exist!
I am afraid. I guess, the same thing is going to happen again, as before, many times it had happened and no one was being able to handle it, till now.
No doubt, Malala is doing a wonderful job regarding the education of girls and it is obvious that no one ever did as wonderful as she did. We are proud of her and we pray for her long life as a social activist.
But I’m afraid of one thing; according to my opinion Malala is being famous as a social activist only for the education of girls and not for boys. It seems un-fair a little bit if she is just working for the education of girls. I guess, she is not trying to take a look at the both sides of the coin. She is just thinking about one side of a paper without caring of the other side. I know, her father is a back-stage, and he should push Malala for the education of boys as well. I have no idea, why she isn’t thinking about the other side of the coin. As far as I am concerned, taking a look at the other side of the coin is important as well. Unfortunately, no one is trying to do it and this very mistake has been done before, because before people just used to think about the education for the boys and not for the girls which was the big mistake and we are facing problems today just because of that decision. And now this exercise is going to be done only for the girls, this is what I’m afraid of a lot. I’m afraid, what will happen, if segregation and criticism takes place in the world again. Like before, there was a criticism among cast, religion, black and white, girl and boy, rich and poor etc. And we had a bad impact on us due to this thinking.
I’m afraid of one thing that why Malala is just thinking about the education of girls only and why she isn’t thinking about the boy’s education as well? There are millions and billions kids & young boys in the age of 8-16 who have been unable to get education, kids 8-15 year olds are working in the work-shops and in the restaurants and some of them have become beggars and are begging just because of the unavailability of education. Will someone come for the education of boys only like you (Malala)? Why you don’t you measure yourself for this job as well?
I’m not advocating for the rights of any particular gender or male or females and boys or girls, no, this is not what I’m thinking about, what I’m thinking about is to keep balance between these two gender’s necessities, male and female’s right should be ensuing stability. According to my opinion life cycle and the relation between boy and girl matters a lot, girl and boy is a husband and wife and is like a weighing scale, and if the weighing scale doesn’t ensure stability between them then chances are that problems will never be solved and I claim it.
I believe that we should never let boys have a chance in the future to be saying that they couldn’t get education just because girls took their rights and no one ever thought about the education of boys or no organization worked for the education of boys, as organizations did for the girls. I assure you if it does so, nothing will be changed and cruelty will remain stable no matter what happens. The only thing what would be changed is the edge of one side, one side will be high and the other will be low like it has happened in the past.
Like before when male were educated and were ruling on the females just to show that they are better than females, because they are educated, and in the future this cycle would be changed and females would be ruling on the males if boys don’t get their right to have education. The thing is that problem will remain stable. I’m not thinking to say directly about the ruling, but this is the reality, which never changes and the reality depends in our mentality. I’m fully agreed with the idea of girl’s education but I’m against of the idea of up and down, low and high, big and small especially in the gender of male and female.
Martin Luther king believed in equality. He said he wants to see in America black girls and white boys and white boys and black girls are holding their hands together. But he never said he was eager to watch black boys and just black girls and white boys and just white girls are walking side by side holding their hands together. The thing is there should be equality and there shouldn’t be any difference between girl and boy, white and black, poor and rich, low and high etc because, all human beings are born equally.
I’m afraid of Malala’s mentorship who is forcing her to think just about one way. Malala is going to do a same mistake which millions and billions of people have done in their past just to watch and think about one side. I guess this is not just Malala or her mentor’s fault but this is our fault as well. I don’t know why, when we think about one famous thing or one edge then we forget about all others or you can say when one thing becomes famous people move their eyes and pay attention to one side only without keeping in mind that other side of the part is essential, as well. Like everyone is now thinking about the education of girls and start forgetting about the education of boys.
You have no idea what I felt and gone through when my parents were beaten in front of me by the police, by asking Feudal Taliabn. Well, It is a very long story. But whatever happened was due to the lack of education of boys who did this with my parents. I believe an educated boy would never hit anyone’s mother. And those police officers who did with my parent would have never done if they were educated.
The world has been cheated since the day one with the wrong notion of cast, color and religion. I believe in equality. Because all human beings are born equally without any sort of difference. No doubt, if girls would become educated then we will have literate and educated mothers who would teach their children better than un-educated mothers. And this would be a very valuable and positive step.
Malala you did everything you could for just the education of girls, you did because you loved to do and this was the reason according to your point of view. But I want education for the girls because I am fully aware of the losses of non-educated girls. I know what would happen if girls don’t get education. Because my mother couldn’t sign on the check due the lack of education and there was only one person in the world who worth believed. And it was my mother, but what she could not do was to sign and handle my money. I regretted a lot at that time, and when my mother just learnt how to sign then she made me lost about 300.000.00 USD just by signing one paper in the bank which was a conspiracy but she could not understand and she signed on the paper because she didn’t know what was written on the paper and she didn’t try to ask me or anyone else who could tell her the truth about the conspiracy and I lost what I earned in a 10 years. And the above mentioned amount was everything of mine. I believe I would be something great today if I had my mother was an educated mother. Therefore, I know how important education is for the girls. And it was only one example I have seen lots of examples in front of me. I wouldn’t regret of my mother’s education if my father was an educated person. So, education isn’t important for only girl but boy, as well.
As every saint and an educated person says that wife and husband are like a pair of a car’s tyre and if one tyre doesn’t work well then the car would not walk well. Therefore, we have to think about stability as well.
The problem will remain unstable if gender of two doesn’t get their education and rights of freedom. It is obvious, if girls get education and boys do not then boys will remain illiterate and in the future there would be a huge problem in not just marriage and status but mind set difference will occur, as well. As obvious, in the world today, no girl would like to wed with illiterate boy and no boy would like to marry