- Posted October 23, 2013 by
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Everyday racism: Your stories
Later we go to the bar of this guesthouse, where after some time we start to dance to the good music. I did take some pics with my canon-camera that afternoon.
After we did spend a nice afternoon together we later separate, my friends go ‘home’ and as well me I return back to my hotel. I tell to my ‘girlfriend’ that today it is not possible for her to come to my hotel, but we can again meet the next day if she wants to. She is not satisfied by what I do say to her, because of course she wants to come to my hotel, but she agrees that next day we can meet again. I do give her and to her girl-friend some small money before we split up. That Sunday we did not have sex together.
It is only the next day on Monday that my sexy-girl and me we have again a hot and very sexy encounter (=sex-party!). She visits me at my hotel-room at about 17:00 hours and of course we both know the reason for this visit – am awaiting her as I was thinking about my hot and sexy Kasama-girl already the entire day; and when she enters the room I do surprise her with my little canon A1400 that I do hold in my hand. I ask her if I could take some photos of her? She replies with a smile that this is of course possible – if only I can pay some neat dollars to her then anything is possible. This is now exactly the answer that I wanted to hear from my black darling...
At this point of the police-interrogation the police-officer Mr. Bwalya interrupts me in my narration and he says: ‘please Mr. Daniel, come to the point, tell me now where the tripod was standing in the room and then tell me in which position she did stand or lie in front of your little camera, and what was your (=Daniel) own position and what your-self (=Daniel) were doing then, I should not talk to far and widely fetched, we do not have time the whole afternoon, this questioning must be finished within reasonable time!’
‘Ok, Mr. Bwalya!’ I did reply, ’I try to focus on the main and most important issues; I should try to concentrate on the centre of the matter, I should not slide of into unimportant fields/stuff and I should not tell too much about unimportant things…
>…’I was very satisfied that the young and willing lady wants to do some hot and sexy photos, as I do want to have some sweet memories of my Africa-Holiday, I wish to have some photo-memories of my sexy encounter, if it is possible. I did set up the handy tripod in the corner of the room and from this angle (=corner of room) I can see enough of the room so it is possible to take photos and to tape some video-clips.
I should not forget to tell to you that during the day I went to a shop to buy sunglasses. It is important to know that I give a cap and sunglasses to my sexy-girl and I demand that she wears the cap and the sunglasses (>me as well I’m wearing a cap and sunglasses) while we are taking photos or video-clips – it is important to me that she is in this manner ‘masked’ and somebody who looks at the photos (or video-clips) cannot recognize/identify who she is, cannot know who the person is, she (her personal identity, and as well my personal identity) is in this way/manner ‘protected’ !!) (>can you understand what I want to explain to you?!) – I always (several times) repeat that she must now put on the sunglasses and the cap, because sometimes while looking to the photos she takes the bothersome stuff of and puts its away!
After undressing and kissing around for some time I did start to take some nice photos, as well the pretty girl likes to look at the photos and soon she proposes some good positions of which to take photos makes sense to me…!
Not much later I do explain to my sexy-friend that I will now start to do some video-clip-filming, and I do explain how she should position herself in front of the camera…
You must know that I have to explain the position of the young woman in exact manner to the police-officer, at one stage I myself go down to the floor of his office and on all 4 extremities I do now resemble to a ‘dog’ (>dogy-style)! (>If I could only speak/write better English…then everything would be far easier to explain to you folks!) -> You must understand that the police-officer Mr. Bwaya demands that I do explain to him the exact body-position the prostitute holds during the ‘photo-shooting’ or/and during the sex-act and I must explain to him the nature of the sex-act precisely (for instance : oral-sex, another word for ‘blowjob’, I must in detail explain to him what I’m doing while we are having/doing ‘oral-sex’, etc. – this is important to Mr. Bwalya, the police-officer! Already at this point he tells to me that in Zambia ‘blowjob’ is considered to be a ‘unnatural behaviour’ and will be punished by prison…!! – you might understand that this discussion/interrogation (=questioning) in the office of Mr. Bwalya makes me unsecure, never before did a police-officer or another person speak to me in this kind, never before did I hear that doing ‘oral-sex’ (and other ‘normal’ sexual practices) is punished by prison! – he says that only sexual practices/procedures : genital-organ (vagina) to genital-organ (=penis) is considered to be ok (=is allowed) in Zambia) – remember that this is the level of the discussion for more than an hour…it makes me nervous and unsecure (I start to sweat..), but anyway I try to tell the truth and only the truth to the police-officer…: