- Posted December 8, 2013 by
Collingswood, New Jersey
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Preventing the holiday weight gain before it starts
As I mentioned previously, the holiday season not only represent festive times, it also represents a change in your regular routine. You’ll be going out more often…whether it’s to the mall to shop for gifts or to a neighbor’s house for an impromptu party, you will find that your traditional cycle of coming home and making dinner will be broken. How many of us will have to pick up a gift that will take us to the mall until the wee hours of the night? And will you really feel like making dinner once you arrive home? Wouldn’t it be easier to grab something in the food court? Or stop at Boston Market? Or even better yet, order the infamous pizza when you get home?
How about the multitude of holiday gatherings that you’ll be going to where ninety percent of the items on the menu will undo every effort you’ve ever made at keeping yourself trim throughout the year? Think about it? Rich, gooey macaroni and cheese, hollandaise sauce, creamy potato salad, thick gravy, hot biscuits with melting butter, sugar cookies, plumb pudding, strawberry cheesecake, sweet potato and pumpkin pie with mounds of whipped cream…I have to undo my belt just thinking about it. That’s two inches to my beltline just waiting to happen.
In the end, developing healthy eating habits became crucial, not just to get through the holidays, but all year long. Coming from a family where the holidays meant forgoing my daily diet and eating everything that looked good on the table, I struggled to think of ways that would make my transition into the new year easier. I always wound up making the resolutions for a new and improved me – and inadvertently wound up breaking the promises before January ended. I struggled to think of how I could change this cycle and keep the promises that I made, and made some interesting discoveries.
The first one was that your holiday season eating habits actually begin to change one month before the onset of the holiday season, especially if you’re a woman with children. Halloween signifies the unofficial beginning of Fall, and it also gives millions of mothers across the country a reason to go out and buy candy in excess. The most common excuse is to have something to give the trick or treaters on October 31st. It’s so easy to pick up a Snickers or Milky Way here and there when it’s readily available.
I’ve corresponded with several nutritional counselors who made several suggestions that will help you make getting through this holiday season tolerable and at the same time, making the ability to keep your New Years resolutions easier.
1.) Forgo the Halloween candy – I’m not telling you that you can never eat chocolate again. I’m telling you to be realistic with yourself. You and I both know that it’s okay to have the occasional piece of chocolate, peanuts and/or nougat. We also know how often we actually have it so if you’re one of those people that are constantly reaching for the candy dish, rethink it. One way to keep yourself from going to the dish (or the bowl) is to arm yourself with decent snacks to keep your blood sugar from dipping throughout the day. Cheesesticks and nuts are excellent sources of protein. They are snacks that will keep your blood sugar level consistent and carry you through to the next main meal of the day.
2.) As you get closer to Thanskgiving, remember to keep everything in moderation. It’s okay to have a slice of cheesecake, or sample the macaroni and cheese, but balance is the key. Sample the foods that are good for you just as much as you would the food that isn’t so good for you, and if you over do it, don’t worry about. Guilt is one of the top factors in why we continue in a behavior that isn’t so good for us. Thanksgiving dinner is only one day. Don’t allow yourself to think that you have the luxury of a whole month of eating decadently. That’s where you do the damage. New Years Day will be here before you know it. And it’s a lot easier to be at the base of a hill looking up to try to climb it than the base of Mt. Everest.
3.) Plan Your Season – If you take the time to plan your vacation, why can’t you do the same for your holiday? Budget your time the same way that you would your finances. Designate the day that you’re going to shop for your gifts. Make a list of what you want to buy and for whom. The whole objective is to try to keep yourself as close to your regular schedule as possible. Most of us get tired from attempting to do too much at one time. We go into the season blindly, knowing that we have to make dinners, go shopping and decorate like crazy…but the majority of us don’t plan it. Sometimes, it’s not about the “What” but the “How” and the “When”.
4.) Moderation is Key – By moderation, I don’t just mean food. I’m talking about alcohol consumption. Besides the obvious, over-indulging in alcohol isn’t good for you. Wine is high in calories and other beverages break down into sugar once it hits your system…and guess where it gets stored?
5.) Don’t Wait Until December 31st – Make your resolutions now and call them promises. The whole concept of making a resolution is good, but it doesn’t work. Do you remember the resolution you made January of this year? And if you do, did you keep it? If you did, you’re among the small percentage that does and I take my hat off to you. Make your promise now. You want to lose weight, start doing something about it now. Don’t wait until next year. You won’t have the stigma of a date that everyone makes false promises to themselves, and you won’t set yourself up for failure. What you would have done is institute a healthy change for a healthy lifestyle instead of making a temporary change for a couple of weeks.
6.) Lastly, make time for yourself – If you’re going to squeeze in extra shopping time, you’re also going to need to squeeze in some extra down-time. You really are going to need to unplug and unwind. If that time means going for a walk by yourself, going to another room to read for a few minutes or (if you’re really daring) going to a gym, remember, you need to be good to you so that you can be good to someone else.
~ J.L. Whitehead