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    Posted June 8, 2014 by

    Rational & Same Sex Marriage Bans

    With the struck down of same-sex marriage bans in Wisconsin late last week,I wish to post this iReport to assist decision makers in US, UK and worldwide in taking appropriate steps in addressing the challenge:
    What is Same-sex marriage? This is a marriage relationship involving people of the same gender. The members of this group are directly or indirectly victims/products of failed natural relationships, marriages and families. They are made up of two major groups: Male & Female groups. As the rate of divorce increase worldwide, so does the number of members of same sex marriage increase.

    In 2012 in UK, 118,140 marriages broke up (for detail, follow this link: http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-26070256. This figure implies approximately 43% of all the marriages in that year.

    In US, about 50% of all marriages end up in divorce (for detail, follow this link: www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/divorce.htm). This rate is expected to increase over time.

    They say birds of same feather flock together. Now, these individuals meet in their working places, markets, churches/religious groups, town unions, recreational centres, eating places etc. As they meet, they form groups (for example, follow this link: http://gaycenter.org/about).

    As a way of pretending or denying the pains of their separation or failed relationship, they indulge and advocate for same sex marriage as a way of informing the separated partners, 'I don't feel it. I can do without you.' In this way, they attempt to deceive their conscience.

    As a sign of living contrary to nature, some of them adopt children who are products of unions of men and women. This act contradicts their way of life. For example, visit: http://gaylife.about.com/od/gayparentingadoption/a/gayadoptionstat.htm and read the second paragraph (bulleted) and http://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/press/press-releases/as-overall-percentage-of-same-sex-couples-raising-children-declines-those-adopting-almost-doubles-significant-diversity-among-lesbian-and-gay-families/.

    The legalization of gay marriage will definitely weaken natural unions of men and women as well as preparing ground for man's extinction on earth. It can also lead to a total loss of social control wherever it is practised. It's just a matter of time and space.

    Therefore, if governments of the countries of the world and the advocates of same sex marriage truly wish to help the victims of same sex marriage, let them be assured they cannot achieve that by legalizing the said marriage but by finding and implementing solutions to the problems that lead to broken relationships, marriages and families. Let them legalize and enforce laws that will make relationships, marriages and families stronger and better rather than those that will weaken them.

    Also remember that any man-made constitution or law that contradicts natural laws requires amendment. Thus, any judgement or decision reached on the basis of such constitution is in itself false.

    Note: By nature, all male animals go after female animals of their kinds. Whenever the contrary is the case, then there is problem somewhere. At this point, what is required is problem identification and proffering of solution but not
    making laws to perpetuate the problems.

    Thank you.

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