Real men don't rape or gang bang. Man up and learn the art of giving pleasure through patience, love and understanding. Dignity, respect, honour, face. Remember your wife, mother and grandmother, your sisters, aunties, nieces and daughters. How would you feel if it happened to them?
I found this piece of art in a very small village a few miles away from Yangshou, China 2011, and everyone who notices it on the shelf is captivated. You can look but you can't touch.
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