Hi ALL, dementia and alzheimer's is a very difficult illness to "accept" and live with. IF not around people often and on a personal level it can often go undetected. The person NEEDS to be around people long enough so a "pattern and witness" to the signs and symptons of the persons illness becomes "clear". Family will start to suspect that something is "off". They will see a consistent pattern. The suffering person will be STUBBORN and say nothing is wrong. They really do not know anything is wrong, WE TELL THEM because we see the "demise and falling" of their behavior. Could it be possible that David Carradine was sufferring this often "undetected" illness and was going through life perceived as "healthy as all get out?" IF, he was not "at home" alot and no consistent behavior was detected Alzeheimer's can be perceived as a rebellious, stubborn, me only, my way, obstinate, sometimes "mean" OLD GROUCH! And sometimes it appears in a more "childlike and childish" manner in a "help me - helplessness state".
A thought occurred to me today. I have been around people who suffer "dementia" which is a pre-condition to the onset of Alzheimer's Disease. Often times with these conditions patients suffer periods of "disorientation", they "go back in time-remembering ALOT from childhood and younger years" and they often cannot recall the "short term-memory". It is particularly WORSE when "isolated or alone". Patients suffering from Alzheimer's or Dementia can do well around people (or on a set, or work, etc) because they are around people, they are being TOLD what to do. Often times the "illness" kicks in at home and shows up in lack of hygiene, forgetfulness, disorientatioin, not eating right, just do "out of the ordinary and bizarre" things. Perhaps, when everything else is ruled out, it would not be uncommon for a man in his seventies to have Alzheimer's. IF he did indeed perform this act, he may have been "disorientated (remember he did NOT show up to eat), he had some confusion, he was alone, and perhaps as a younger man he performed this type of "sexual act" or may have always wanted to...and he was just NOT a right or normal state of mind. Something like this would NOT surprise me if indeed he sufferred Dementia or Alzheimer's. I have had experience with these type of patients and this is something they COULD possibly do, without REALLY knowing what they were doing. They were in a state of confusion, memory loss, and honestly it was just "pure innocence" of a person just "growing old". It was the "disease" and NOT the person. Something to think about!
This could have been what happened to Mr. Carradine. An undetected illness and with being OVER 70 his mind start to "deteroiate" as all our body parts do. It is "normal". It is called "the aging process". We ALL end up dying from "something". Perhaps, if this was the cause a closer eye NEEDS to be kept on our OLDER LOVED ONES because a tragedy like this can happen. Maybe this is a LESSON that can be "learned" IF that is what happened. OLDER PEOPLE NEED TO BE TAKEN CARE OF AND WATCHED!!! People in their 70's should be LOOKED AFTER not OVER-LOOKED!
You know folks, a seventy year old is NO SPRING CHICKEN. He may have looked younger, acted younger, felt younger, etc. BOTTOM LINE: David Carradine was in his SEVENTIES!
Why was he staying in a HOTEL room ALL BY HIMSELF? I would NEVER, EVER leave my Mom or Dad ALONE in a Hotel Room at age 70. My parents could NOT be left alone in their 60's!! This may in itself be a final lesson learned from Mr. Carradine. No matter WHO you are, where you came from, how much money you made, in "the end", we ALL need SOMEONE to be there for us and not leave us alone "at home" , in a Hotel room, or anywhere. Older people are just that "older". Mr. Carradine should NOT have been left alone. Period. Why you ask? he WAS 70 years old. Period. He was placed in a "vulnerable" spot no matter how you look at it. David Carradine was left alone, vulnerable, in a foreign country and he "died". This is sad, very very sad. I am so sorry, Mr. Carradine. IF. this is what happened, Mr. Carradine did NOT do this intentioinally. Mr. Carradine did NOT hang himself due to "sexual activity", heart failure, etc. Mr, Carradine died because of a "disease of the mind". It was THE DISEASE that killed David Carradine, not David Carradine the man we all came to know and love.....and still do.....
With utmost respect to his family and loved ones. I, like every one else, want the TRUTH.
Blessings and Peace,
Suzanne Newkirk +
Forever Loyal Friend
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