CNN wants to know. Well I've been married 13 years now and It has been wonderful and In 13 years only 1 fight. I meet my wife 2 years before we got to gather.My brother was dating a girl now my sister in law and I met her sister who at the time was17 years old at a demolition derby. I never saw her again for 2 years then my brother decided to get married and I was the best man and her sister was the maid of honor. My brother was married and after the reception the maid of honor she disappeared like Cinderella.I guess it was 2 weeks later my brother had truck trouble electrical fire he ask me to come over and fix the truck so I did well after I got there and started rewiring the truck carol my sister in laws sister showed up and I teased her about being like Cinderella and disappearing after the reception.wasn't long after we started dating and 6 months later she moved in with me on my 1 1/2 acre spread shack included.I guess I knew she was the one for me when I realized she cared more about me than she did for her self that it didn't matter how poor I was or that I drove a old beater car.I guess the light bulb went off in my head when I realized she put my needs and wants before hers which has made me a better husband and father. thanks for viewing