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    Posted May 9, 2010 by
    New York

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    This is what America has become


      You think you have rights because

    you are married? Well you don’t, you \

    are virtually divorced by guardianship.

    This is my story.

    When ever you enter a hospital or

    nursing home you lose all your civil

    rights at the door.

    They just randomly threw a bunch of

    people together for an ethic committee

    panel to end my husbands life

    consisting of seven people -Diane

    Giantisco who is the Director corporate

    compliance risk care manager - Linda

    Daino Department of Social Services -

    Dr. Corbalon my husbands doctor who

    is a stranger to Gary. - Case

    manager, social worker, unit manager,

    and a Chaplin I was not allowed to


    My husband had no one to advocate

    for him. Where was my husband’s

    attorney in all of this?   After they

    decided to starve and dehydrate my

    husband, his appointed

    guardian submitted an order to show

    cause to the judge to end my husbands

    life. The judge took one look at what

    was submitted. She scolded the county

    and said “this was a serious matter,

    this is someone’s life” and gave them

    10 days to come up with medical

    proof . The county with drew the

    motion but left the illegal DNR on him.

    These same people are still in control

    and I fear my husband’s life

    everyday….   The abuse, isolation and

    inadequate care Gary gets has been

    overwhelming with on going surgeries

    where I do not get any explanations.

    Why is my husbands guardian not

    concerned and why is it they are

    isolating him? Who are they really

    trying to protect? Why is he denied

    second opinions? What is the big

    secret? The thing is Gary does not

    have to live this way. He is treated

    worse than a criminal.


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