It's difficult thing to process, when your world falls apart and you find out who truly is your friend and who is not.
I used to say:
"Anyone who can say no to me when at my best, but for the best reasons, then they deserve me.
But if you say no when I'm at my lowest, just to prove a point or out of selfishness, then you don't."

Lately I've been hearing NO a lot!

They don't say NO to be vicious or evil.

They don't say NO out of fear or to control.

They don't say NO just because they can.

They don't say NO to watch me fall.

They don't say NO out of selfishness.

They don't say NO to feel superior.

They don't say NO because it's to much for them.

They say NO because it's what I need to hear.

Although I've had my share of "fair weather friends",
who've said no for the reasons above.
Those who surround me now,
Say NO out of love. :)

For that, I'm grateful.