Hi,I would like to share my story in hopes of some kind of solution. I found out a couple of years ago that my ex girlfriend cheated on me and the twins that she gave birth to while we were in a so called relationship sleeping in the same bad werent my kids after all. I did not find out until the children were two years old which we then broke up. Child support enforcement says dna test cant overturn the decision cause the birth certificate was signed. why are women getting away with this and people keep saying you shouldnt have signed when all parents know that when your in a relationship and the women gets pregnant you would assume the child is yours because you slept in the same bed.Besides that the hospital brings you the acknowledgement papers after the child is placed in your arms from the delivery room. How is that fair. Why is it the mother is on public assistance so she can enforce childsupport she hasnt work in over ten years has her currently released non-biological father ex con boyfriend claiming the kids on his taxes even though the children are on her case so she can get rental assistance, cash benefits, section 8, and medicaid when shes 31 and can work? Why is it the mother was reported to the New York welfare fraud and nothing happens? Why is it that i report the situation to New York State Governor Cuomo via certified letter and email and the response was take it up with childsupport? Why are lawyers telling me im stuck paying and theirs no way i can win because of the acknowledgement being siged? How is this fair? The mother is now 31 5 kids 4 different baby daddys and im stuck paying for three when we have only one child together? None of the other fathers are involved except for me and my one child we have together. How much more humiliation can i take and just be ignored by government agencies to then be obligated to pay child support for two children that call her boyfriend daddy and i have to pay until 18 or during college. Please help is their anyone out their with the same problem? its unfair that this person continues to live in a 4 bedroom apt for free with public assistance section 8 paying for everything while she files false tax returns to get earned income credit with no proof of income and her boyfriend who works lives for free and claims the other kids that she receives benefits for? why is it always poor mother what happen to legit father being deceited by unfaithful women but the system is biased towards fathers. How is it she been reported to Childsupport enforcement at 66 lafayette in new york city, welfare fraud in albany, bronx family court, and New york State Governor Cuomo and nothing happens? The children are now 8 years old and i been paying support since we broke up. How is it her step father who was alive during the time was able to collect disability live in the same house while she had her own public assistance case open? How is it fair that her mother who has been dead for 10 years has been able to use a power of attorney document to be able to transfer the mothers section 8 voucher under her daughters name and been having assitance ever since? I understand hard times but this is just complete fraud and corruption of government money due to the neglegence of HPD at 100 gold st. New York. Temporary assistance is what it should be temporary not lifetime. Im so tired of this abuse
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